Most of our kids EXPECT gifts during the holidays, and indeed, our Christmas morning gift opening ritual may consist of a free-for-all with ribbons, bows, and wrapping paper flying everywhere. Sure, that can be fun, but it can also get out of control. It can lead to kids feeling “entitled” instead of “blessed.” Giving our children gifts, no matter what time of year, can be...
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Kids face challenges every day, and as parents, we want them to have the confidence to handle them on their own. It’s easy to jump in and try to help with everything so that things get done “right” the first time. But teaching a positive self-concept isn’t something that we can do for them, on their behalf. It’s something we can only cultivate in our...
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We’re pleased to welcome Dr. Gary Tipton to our Love & Logic® Parenting Team! Dr. Tipton is a Pediatrician and Independent Facilitator of Becoming a Love and Logic Parent. He facilitates workshops for the University of Richmond, churches, daycare centers, local County Social Service offices and private groups. He is also available for individualized coaching. For over 35 years, Dr. Tipton has served the Richmond...
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It’s easy to tell our kids “no” when they are about to do something they shouldn’t. However, by defaulting to this short but inherently demanding answer, we often miss opportunities to teach our kids better ways to behave or respond to a situation. The Love and Logic® approach reminds us that there are other responses that might be more effective. Try one of these approaches...
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I was organizing my many bottles of sunscreen this weekend (two kids preparing for summer camp at the same time means duplicates of everything) and I was wondering if the stuff I used last year was still good. Would they still be protected from the sun? I was happy to learn that the FDA required that sunscreens retain their original strength for three years (that...
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As we begin to think about the next school year, some of you with struggling students may be facing the prospect of “holding back” your child, repeating a grade because they weren’t successful at grasping all of the concepts taught this past year. Some schools might make grade retention mandatory, but in many, the parents have a choice. So what’s best for your child? Consider...
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Parenting doesn’t come with a handbook, but that doesn’t mean there’s no support out there for you. Try a parenting coach! Athletes have personal trainers to help them reach their peak performance, business-owners can use coaches to help them focus and stay on course, and yes, parents can enjoy the help of a parenting expert to help you become a parenting pro yourself. Parenting coaches...
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There’s no doubt technology is an integral part of life, and that’s not all bad. After all, computers can be a gateway to educational opportunities and cell phones are a great way to stay in touch with your busy teen. But you know as well as I do that kids often get wrapped up in Internet surfing, texting, social networking, and gaming. Even adults can...
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Kids seem to be extremely adept at luring their parents into no-win arguments. They are determined and persistent when it comes to things they want (or don’t want) to have or buy or do. And the more they carry on and push to get their way, the more we as adults feel like we have to dig in our heels and take a stand. We...
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With school back in session, it won’t be long before you’ll hear, “Mom, I need help with my homework.” For many parents, this statement may initiate a sigh, an eye-roll, or even a feeling of dread! After all, it’s been a few years since we’ve been in school, studying English, algebra, and social studies! When it comes to homework help, parents really have only two...
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