As our children move from tricycles and cartoons to iPods and car insurance, they are “fighting” for independence and their appearance is outward evidence. For the most part, considering all the other ways kids can show independence, appearance issues are fairly harmless. So, how do you know when to let you kids “fit in” and we “step in”? “Teens struggle with the need to fit...
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Even as adults, we try so hard to get the things that we know we can’t have. Although we want different things than kids, sometimes adults don’t act too much differently than children do. Characteristics like persistence and determination, especially in public, don’t look like attractive traits. But as a positive parent, encouraging a child to grow natural actions into positive life tools. Here are...
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Kathy Jenkins joins Paige Trevor for this article published on Washington Parent {dot} com. Parents tend to see most aspects of child rearing as a matter of getting our words right. In order to teach our kids how to do everything from dressing themselves to packing their backpacks to cleaning their rooms, we talk: we explain, direct, coax and remind. When none of that works,...
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As a busy mom you may frequently ask yourself “What is my most important priority I have today?” There may be several answers… family, work, religion, school, errands, the list can go on and on. However, have you ever stopped and said, “I am my most important priority today.” Making yourself your own priority may not be an easy task but it is incredibly important....
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Most of our kids EXPECT gifts during the holidays, and indeed, our Christmas morning gift opening ritual may consist of a free-for-all with ribbons, bows, and wrapping paper flying everywhere. Sure, that can be fun, but it can also get out of control. It can lead to kids feeling “entitled” instead of “blessed.” Giving our children gifts, no matter what time of year, can be...
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We’re pleased to welcome Dr. Gary Tipton to our Love & Logic® Parenting Team! Dr. Tipton is a Pediatrician and Independent Facilitator of Becoming a Love and Logic Parent. He facilitates workshops for the University of Richmond, churches, daycare centers, local County Social Service offices and private groups. He is also available for individualized coaching. For over 35 years, Dr. Tipton has served the Richmond...
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It’s easy to tell our kids “no” when they are about to do something they shouldn’t. However, by defaulting to this short but inherently demanding answer, we often miss opportunities to teach our kids better ways to behave or respond to a situation. The Love and Logic® approach reminds us that there are other responses that might be more effective. Try one of these approaches...
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Parenting doesn’t come with a handbook, but that doesn’t mean there’s no support out there for you. Try a parenting coach! Athletes have personal trainers to help them reach their peak performance, business-owners can use coaches to help them focus and stay on course, and yes, parents can enjoy the help of a parenting expert to help you become a parenting pro yourself. Parenting coaches...
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With school back in session, it won’t be long before you’ll hear, “Mom, I need help with my homework.” For many parents, this statement may initiate a sigh, an eye-roll, or even a feeling of dread! After all, it’s been a few years since we’ve been in school, studying English, algebra, and social studies! When it comes to homework help, parents really have only two...
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It’s Sunday night and you are looking forward to relaxing after a busy weekend when your kid comes rushing into the room, “I have a project due tomorrow and I can’t find my instructions. Do we have any poster board? Where are my markers?” And the race begins… So often I get calls from parents who just don’t understand why their child can’t be organized,...
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